by Tamara Hartley | Aug 15, 2018 | Ask Tamara Advice Column, Family Advice, Love and Relationship Advice, Parenting Advice
Dear Tamara: My seventeen-year-old son is only interested in dating white girls. At first I thought it was just a one-time thing, then I began seeing a pattern. Finally I talked with him about it and he told me that “white girls” are just his preference. As his...
by Tamara Hartley | Aug 12, 2018 | Ask Tamara Advice Column, Education Advice, Family Advice, Love and Relationship Advice, Marriage Advice
Dear Tamara: My fiancé has asked me to move in with him. We have been together for three years and engaged for almost a year now. We have not yet set a wedding date because we each have another year of school left and we both want to wait until we graduate college...
by Tamara Hartley | Aug 9, 2018 | Ask Tamara Advice Column, Family Advice, Love and Relationship Advice
Dear Tamara: My parents were married for 32 years. My mother was diagnosed with stage four breast cancer and died four months after her diagnosis. My mother was our rock, and really kept the entire family together. It has only been a little over a year since my mother...
by Tamara Hartley | Aug 8, 2018 | Ask Tamara Advice Column, Family Advice, Friendship Advice, Love and Relationship Advice, Marriage Advice
Dear Tamara: In my lifetime I have been hurt and let down by everyone around me (my former spouse, family members, and friends). People have let me down so much in the past that I have a hard time connecting with anyone. I guess you can say that I have built a wall of...
by Tamara Hartley | Aug 6, 2018 | Ask Tamara Advice Column, Family Advice, Love and Relationship Advice, Parenting Advice
Dear Tamara: My husband and I have been married for four years. In those four years I have had two children and have gained quite a bit of weight. On our wedding day I was about a size 6 and now I am closer to a size 16. At first my husband didn’t complain about my...
by Tamara Hartley | Aug 4, 2018 | Ask Tamara Advice Column, Love and Relationship Advice, Marriage Advice
Dear Tamara: How do you confront a spouse about a rumor you heard about them? Suspicious Dear Suspicious: First of all, a rumor is just that, a RUMOR. A speculation, accusation, or something that has NOT YET been proven. And in many cases, a rumor can be a flat...
