by Tamara Hartley | Feb 11, 2013 | Ask Tamara Advice Column, Love and Relationship Advice, Marriage Advice
Dear Tamara: My husband hates short hair. My hair is to the middle of my back and I really want to get it cut short, but my husband doesn’t want me to. He says he prefers long hair and doesn’t think women look good with short hair. I have never had a short hairstyle...
by Tamara Hartley | Feb 11, 2013 | Ask Tamara Advice Column, Career Advice, Friendship Advice
Dear Tamara: My boss sent me a friend request on Facebook and I am really not sure if I should accept it or not. On one hand my boss is really cool. She is down to earth and really tries to get to know everyone on the staff. I think we have a good working...
by Tamara Hartley | Feb 11, 2013 | Ask Tamara Advice Column, Friendship Advice, Love and Relationship Advice
Dear Tamara: My best friend disapproves new relationship with my new beau! Shortly after my divorce I began dating a man of another race. When I told my best friend about the relationship, she freaked out and didn’t hold back her disapproval about man that I was...
by Tamara Hartley | Mar 6, 2012 | Ask Tamara Advice Column, Love and Relationship Advice
Dear Tamara: My boyfriend and I recently had a heated argument and we broke up on Facebook. I was sure that after a few days things would cool off and we would go back to normal, like we always do. That was until a mutual friend told me that my boyfriend had changed...
by Tamara Hartley | Jun 29, 2011 | Ask Tamara Advice Column, Family Advice, Parenting Advice
Dear Tamara: I am furious that my daughter has so many tattoos and Piercings! She has completely flipped the script and I barely even know her anymore. Since she moved out on her own it’s like she is a completely new person. She has tattoos all over her arms and an...
by Tamara Hartley | May 25, 2011 | Ask Tamara Advice Column, Family Advice, Love and Relationship Advice, Marriage Advice
Dear Tamara: My wife is a shopaholic and she is ruining our credit and our marriage! She buys things that she doesn’t even need. Her closet is full of clothes with tags still on them. She has over a hundred pairs of shoes and purses and still she continues to shop....
by Tamara Hartley | May 4, 2011 | Ask Tamara Advice Column, Career Advice, Love and Relationship Advice
Dear Tamara: What is your take on romance in the workplace? I recently started dating a guy that works in my office. At first things were really cool because we were very low key and no one knew we were dating. Now he wants go public with our relationship and share it...
by Tamara Hartley | Apr 19, 2011 | Ask Tamara Advice Column, Family Advice, Parenting Advice
Dear Tamara: Recently my fifteen-year-old niece confided in me that she is four months pregnant. I tried to talk to her and convince her to talk to her mother, but she is too afraid. Though my sister has a history of getting upset and going off, I still think she has...
by Tamara Hartley | Mar 30, 2011 | Ask Tamara Advice Column, Friendship Advice, Love and Relationship Advice, Marriage Advice
Dear Tamara: I have met the guy of my dreams. Seriously, he is everything I have been looking for. He is kind, considerate, and funny. He has a great job, owns his own home and goes to church every Sunday. We have a lot in common and I really think he could be the...
by Tamara Hartley | Mar 5, 2011 | Ask Tamara Advice Column, Career Advice
Dear Tamara: My boss dresses way too sexy for work. Even our male coworkers think her dress is excessive. On any given day she shows up to work with her cleavage hanging out, wearing short skirts and even tighter dresses that leave nothing to the imagination. Even her...