by Tamara Hartley | Jan 5, 2016 | Ask Tamara Advice Column, Career Advice, Dating Advice, Education Advice
l Hate My Life and Don’t Know How to Make it Better I’m stuck in a rut Dear Tamara: I am 24 years old (about to turn 25 in three months) and I hate my life! My friends are getting married and starting families. I don’t even have a boyfriend or any real...
by Tamara Hartley | May 27, 2015 | Ask Tamara Advice Column, Dating Advice, Love and Relationship Advice
Dear Tamara: I met this guy I really liked. We went out and we kissed and fooled around a little. I thought we were dating, but when I saw him again he said that we were not and flirted with my best friend. What should I do? Britt Dear Britt: First, I’m curious...
by Tamara Hartley | May 11, 2015 | Ask Tamara Advice Column, Career Advice, Friendship Advice
Dear Tamara: I have a coworker that is stalking me on social media. I was hesitant to accept his friend request on Facebook because I normally like to keep my work, and personal lives separate, but I didn’t want him to feel bad if I didn’t accept. Especially since I...
by Tamara Hartley | May 6, 2015 | Ask Tamara Advice Column, Career Advice, Family Advice, Love and Relationship Advice, Marriage Advice
Dear Tamara: My husband and I have been married for three years. When we first got married, he was the primary breadwinner of the family making over six figures. About a year ago he lost his job when his company closed, and he has not been able to find a new job that...
by Tamara Hartley | May 5, 2015 | Ask Tamara Advice Column
Dear Tamara: Is seems like everyone is talking about finding their purpose and living their purpose. I am not sure what I am good at and what I’m supposed to do in this world. I need help finding my purpose. Please help! F.Caldwell Dear F. Caldwell: I agree...
by Tamara Hartley | Jul 16, 2014 | Ask Tamara Advice Column, Love and Relationship Advice, Marriage Advice
Dear Tamara: My husband and I have serious communication problems. Because I know some men don’t like to talk, when we were dating I never wanted to force or push him to talk if he didn’t want to. But now that we are married with two kids, we need to...
by Tamara Hartley | Jun 16, 2014 | Ask Tamara Advice Column, Dating Advice, Love and Relationship Advice
Dear Tamara: I’m tired of being single! I’ve never been in a relationship which kind of worries me because I’m nearing the age where most women are married. What concerns me even more is the fact that I don’t have ANY guy friends or prospects...
by Tamara Hartley | Jan 16, 2014 | Ask Tamara Advice Column, Career Advice, Friendship Advice
Dear Tamara: I work in an office of about 30 people. All of us have a child or two (or more). We mention our children in conversation from time to time. There is a young lady that has a four-year-old son. She talks about her son ALL DAY! I try to change the...
by Tamara Hartley | Jan 9, 2014 | Ask Tamara Advice Column, Education Advice, Family Advice, Parenting Advice
Dear Tamara: I think my son is getting bullied by his teacher. Maybe bullying is a strong word, but he is definitely a target! He is always in trouble with his teacher and receiving some type of disciplinary action and it is getting excessive. The teacher claims that...
by Tamara Hartley | Dec 6, 2013 | Ask Tamara Advice Column, Dating Advice, Family Advice, Love and Relationship Advice, Parenting Advice
Dear Tamara: I’m a 19-year-old pregnant college student. Something keeps telling me to keep this child. The only problem is I work minimum wage and I’ve been threatened to get kicked out of the house if I have it. I honestly don’t have the means to...